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Melissa Portan LMSW, MEd

Writer & Sexologist

Melissa is a 5th generation spiritual guide who specializes in helping others find their own spiritual path. She is also a sex and relationship therapist practicing in NYC.


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Twin Souls: Sex


The sexual experience between twin souls breaks away the conventions of the mind, meaning that the reality of these two persons is forever changed. During coitus, twin souls can and often do experience transformational events, either physical or spiritual or mental or emotional. In this type of union, all of the aspects of the body and the soul are involved and so love and desire are greatly amplified. The strength of the arousal during the sexual union is even more heightened because these two are really One. And so, in sexual union, both experience what their original state of union was; which is, a state of bliss, eternal love, sexual fulfillment, and wholeness. Since twin souls are really one soul in two bodies, they both have the same energy. (What I mean by this is not that these two persons are incomplete and are halves of one soul, but that they are two whole souls of one Supersoul.) These energies, however, are opposing to each other. When the relationship is going well it is because the energies of both have found harmony with each other. So when twin souls have sex, there is an exchange of energy. There is an exchange of everything: thoughts, emotions, intentions, love, sexual energy, knowledge, and memories. There is no privacy in the twin soul relationship because they are One and they share everything.

It is possible for the twins to share memories of their own lives with each other during sex. This can happen either by accident, meaning that one might be thinking about a past event during sex and the other picks up on it; or on purpose, where one goes into the union with the intention of expressing or sharing something and the other picks up on it. These things do not happen with soul mates or any other type of partnership. The exchange of emotions, memories, thoughts, knowledge, during sex are the things that truly distinguish the twin soul relationship from a soul mate relationship. Sex is what eliminates the doubt of whether it is your twin soul or not. And when I say that there is an exchange of these things I do not mean that the two are having a conversation while they’re having sex. There is really little speaking, rather, there is little spoken conversation. During sexual union, the two recreate that oneness where separation does not exist. It is then that this spiritual conversation occurs and words do little to relay messages. This kind of communication is called telepathy. This kind of communication flows through the whole body and it is driven by the soul.

The more sex twin souls have the closer they become. They are two magnets that are constantly pulling on each other, no matter what, no matter where they are and whether they know each other or not. Now, here is the part of sex that throws the twin soul union beyond the reach of common understanding, beyond what is normal and acceptable, beyond what is known to be true. The moment you experience sex with a person that is not physically with you, you know that this person is your twin soul. Let there be no doubt in your heart if you can have sex with a person miles and miles away from you, or if you have never met the person, or if that person is on a different plane of existence. It is true that twin souls can have sex without touching, without physically touching each other. This is also one of the most difficult parts of the twin soul relationship because it is so weird, it so beyond what we are so used to that sanity seems to be a thing of the past.

The twin soul sexual union can last for hours without end. They know where to touch each other. They know each other’s sensitive and most arousing points. They know how to have sex and give great pleasure to each other even if they have never had sex with anyone else before. Nothing is off-limits, and if it is, it is quickly overcome because there is comfort, it is the kind of comfort that the divine exude. Sex magic, sacred sex, and Tantra, all come naturally to the twin souls. Though initially they might not be aware of what they are doing or how they are doing it, they quickly learn and awaken this hidden knowledge. They also learn that through sex it is possible to cleanse the Soul from pain. Whatever difficulties they had within themselves, sex is one way that those difficulties are overcome.

Every time one of the twins has an orgasm, the other feels its effects within themself. This is something that gets stronger the further they get into their relationship and the more spiritual the person gets. For example, if partner A has yet to have an orgasm during sex and the other does, partner A might feel the energy within themself, within the belly/navel and sex organs, and it might cause an orgasm. This kind of orgasm will feel deep, internal, and it will feel spiritual. When the twins learn how to move their sexual energy between each other, either by practicing Tantra or any other form of sacred sex, much more beyond transcendental orgasms can happen.

Every time the twin souls orgasm and think of each other, the closer to each other they become. The arousal of one is felt in the other. Through passion and sexual arousal the twins call each other. It is like beams of light traveling through the ether to the other person. The more spiritual the twins become, the more they will be able to perceive of each other. They will be able to see each other’s very souls.




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