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Melissa Portan LMSW, MEd

Writer & Sexologist

Melissa is a 5th generation spiritual guide who specializes in helping others find their own spiritual path. She is also a sex and relationship therapist practicing in NYC.

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Twin Souls: Signs You Are Establishing a Connection

In the twin soul relationship multiple connections are made. There is the physical connection that the twins make when they physically meet. There is the spiritual connection that is always secretly there.  There is the emotional connection that is established when love exchanges between the twins. There is also the mental connection between the twins that allows for the exchange of thoughts and ideas. When the hearts and minds of the twins connect it establishes an energetic bridge between both of them that allows for a metaphysical type of communication. But how do you know that the connection is indeed established? How do you know a connection of any sort between you and your twin soul is starting to be established?


Note that the twin soul connection is always present. It is there since before you were born and had your first incarnation, since the timeless point where you and your twin were utterly one. What happens is the connection becomes dormant as the soul goes through lives and learns its various lessons. The twins don’t always meet physically first. For this type of relationship it is not necessary to first know the body, the voice, or the name of the person. At its most basic they twin souls have always known each other.


When the Time comes for the twins to finally meet, a few things happen. And when these things happen, the twins will most likely not be aware or will not fully know what is happening. The reason I use the word things here is because it is difficult to describe what happens before the twin soul meeting and before the twin soul connection is fully re-established or awakened. What happens to the twins varies from couple to couple. Different pairs of twins are in different cycles of their souls’ evolutions; meaning that some twins might be meeting for the very first time since their primordial separation while others might be at the stage where they are ready to ascend. Regardless, the changes before being aware of anything to do with the twin are subtle but deeply felt.


The first thing you might notice is what can be described as positivity. Although things might not be perfect in your life, there is a positive edge to everything. You feel comfortable with who you are and you think you know yourself completely. This is all happening before you meet your twin soul and perhaps before you even heard about the concept. You might be single and not even thinking about love, but there are moments in your daily life where suddenly you feel a warmth spread from the area around your belly button up the middle of your chest. And this feeling is warm and it is what we know to be love. But perhaps you perceive it as just a good feeling and give it no further importance. It is when these moments and that feeling become more and more consistent that you begin to notice it.  This happiness or love that you feel sometimes has no explanation and it comes and goes as it wills. There is also the reverse of it and it is just as inexplicable; sudden sadness overtakes you. You may have been fine all day and then suddenly sadness just enters you, the same way the warmth of love had entered before. *(Unknown Emotions.)


Dreams are an important aspect of spirituality. Dreams reflect your psychological state and your spiritual state. If you begin to have dreams where you are aware that you are dreaming it is a sign of your growing spiritual and mental awakening. Before the actual encounter between the twins each experiences a spiritual awakening separately and dreams may be a part of that awakening. Some twins might experience dreams. Maybe you’ve always been someone who believes in dreams and has had highly spiritual and insightful dreams. Having dreams about someone you don’t know and feeling deeply connected to him or her in the dreams is a possible sign of reconnecting to the twin, but only if the connection feels romantic (because it is possible to connect with other spiritual beings through dreams and feel much love, a different type of love). In these types of dreams it is not always possible to see the other person clearly, you just know who it is.


Numbers have meanings and for the twins repeating numbers commonly surround their lives. The numbers like 11 11, 3 3, 10 10, or even single digits begin to seem odd and standout. The time on a clock is always the same when you look at it unconsciously, for example. Numbers is just one way spirit guides and the universe communicate messages to twins and to humanity in general.


Another sign that you are beginning to reconnect with your twin soul is that you start making other connections. Animals are often spirit guides. Animals also carry messages with them. If a certain type of animal is always catching your attention, looking into what it symbolizes and what it means to you. If you have a pet that seems to be smarter than its species normally allows, it may be a spirit guide. The different types of connections that I’m talking about here are the ones you make with nature, with the natural world.  Perhaps you sense the oncoming Autumn while everyone is still at the beach in the middle of July. Sensing that there is something more than what you can see and what you already know is a precursor to a spiritual awakening and a spiritual awakening is, in turn, a precursor to the initial twin soul meeting.


Because this is the beginning of the twin soul relationship, of your relationship, things are very subtle and confusing. Often the twins deny that these things are happening because it may seem crazy, it does not conform to rationality, and no one seems to be experiencing the same thing. And even if the twins deny that there is such a thing as a twin soul, something deep down does not allow the denial to overtake it. Deep down the twins know that what is happening is real. This knowing does not come easily and it is tested with doubt and fear. If doubt and fear and even rational thinking fail to remove the love that the twins feel, or that you feel, then it because it is true and it is not going anywhere.

Namaste.

 

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