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Melissa Portan MSW, MEd

Writer & Sexologist

Melissa is a 5th generation spiritual guide and healer who specializes in helping others find their own spiritual path. She is also a sex and relationship therapist practicing in NYC.


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How to Connect with your Twin Soul through Sex


The love, passion, and attraction that exists between twin souls is not bound by common sense. Sometimes, the twins connect so strongly that they threaten the laws of physics. And so, when one twin is aroused the other senses it or feels it. (Go here to read more about twins sensing each other.) Through sex the energy known as the kundalini is awakened and it rises through the body, twists and turns, up to the crown of the head. It is this energy that the twins can easily tap into and communicate with each other.

How to do it. I hope you are comfortable arousing yourself.

Some twins might find that they already do this, connect or call their twin when aroused. To others this might be new. I recommend that you do this in a comfortable setting. To begin, it is best to do this in the dark by candlelight, not because there will be some magical appearance in your room, but because in the darkness there will be less to distract you. However, if you are more comfortable in the daylight, then do it in the daylight. (I can be quite vampiric sometimes.) Either way, you will have your eyes closed.

(Before you start make sure you won’t be disturbed or distracted and light candles or incense though not necessary.)